The small town, “amateur” musician is as different an animal from the professional as apples and oranges – but are joined at the hip. They both started out with the same dreams and aspirations but went separate directions at some fork in the road, one that almost everyone approaches early in a lifetime.
Almost every musician starts out as a “weekender,” a player who packs equipment into Legions, Elk’s Halls and church basements. For some it’s the icing on the cake for putting in five days in the mine or sawmill. For other it’s the first step to accepting an award for best guitarist or songwriter.
For most weekend players the sparkle is real and stays real. They might get the chance to play to a huge audience at a state fair once in a while and sample what it’s like to play the big venues. The name of the band is on the marquee in the same size lettering as the professional band from the state or provincial capital. And after the successful gig there’s the “twinge,” the urge to want to go on down the road and “make it.” Shania Twain was the “chick” singer in a weekend band in northern Ontario. She went on to become a megastar and her band still plays weekends.
For 20 years I played 5 and 6 nights a week. You could back then. The venues were numerous but even back then I would have preferred not to do it. Most of the jobs were lackluster and after ten years of it it begins to sap your will to perform. You live for the big nights with the two and three encores, the one’s where the manager has to threaten you to get you off the stage.
But through the 1980’s those became fewer and fewer. And although I can count the number of nights that I sloughed off on two hands, on many nights my head was far away. I longed for the feeling of playing a live dance even if it meant playing standards and polkas. I missed “the guys,” friends and acquaintances who were not only playing weddings but taking their kids to hockey.
On one night in 1982 I was playing at the Banff Springs Hotel when a member of the Mexican delegation, who was there for a conference, came up to me and asked if his friend could play a song. I don’t usually do this because you never know what you could get in front of a microphone. However, this time I said yes and the guy was a very good guitar player. Instead of thanking me the guitarist put down the instrument and waded into the adulation of the attendees at the conference. I just shrugged and took a break. As I walked over to the bar the Mexican gentleman who had first approached me was there. Noticing me he said, “And my friend isn’t even a professional.”
It was a shot, but my Mexican friend had awoken something in me. By downplaying my prowess he had suddenly reminded me of something I heard a long time ago. “A professional is someone who plays for a living.” A weekender has the luxury of picking and choosing the gigs. He or she would have been a professional except for that fork in the road: job, wife, family.
It’s a choice that some regret on both sides. There is the weekender who has been told for years that he or she could have “made it.” And then there is the professional who was always on the brink of a breakthrough and, after many years of pushing the envelope, longs for the normalcy of a domestic life.
Whatever the choice it was usually the right one. Because second-guessing a calling is not in our power. We usually do what we have to do and then, if we are lucky, have the luxury of looking back. Because it is only in times of reflection that the fog lifts a bit so we can realize that the choices made many years before were usually for the right reasons at the time.
For me, it was was like the Willy Nelson’s song, On the Road Again. The part about meeting people and seeing places I may never see again: Norway, New Orleans, Australia, Fiji. Nelson once said, “Any musician who can put gas in his car and food in his mouth every day is a success.” Okay, so I was successful.
But it sure nice to be a weekender again!





Stumble it!
In the 1970’s a book came out on the shelves that took the past thirty years of music and put it into one concise, easy-to-read thesis. It was called “This Business of Music” and I studied it cover to cover because music had become a business for me and a very complicated business at that.
If you’ve been a guitar player for any length of time you will no doubt be aware of the Holy Grail of guitars, the Pre-CBS Fender Stratocaster. This guitar has the honor of being the most sought-after electric guitar in the world.
I imagine Donna Ludwig thought of those lyrics almost every day for the 50 years since Ritchie Valens died. Because on that day her life became forever entwined with that of Valens, the teen rock-and-roll sensation whose memory will always be linked with Buddy Holy and J.P. “The Big Bopper” Richardson.